• Does your husband or boyfriend act controlling, putting you down in front of people? • Does he act extremely jealous of others who pay attention to you, especially men? • Does he control your finances and behavior, even with whom you socialize? • Does he act violently, losing his temper, striking or breaking objects? • Does he make you feel uncomfortable, uneasy, afraid by certain gestures? • Does he tell you you are nothing and can't make it alone? • Does he grab, push, pinch, shove, or hit you? • Does he call or page you a lot or just show up to "check on you?" • Does he blame you for how he feels or what he does? • Does he pressure you sexually for practices with which you are uncomfortable? • Does he make you feel there is "no way out" of the relationship? • Does he use drugs or alcohol as an excuse for hurting you? If your answer to any of the the above is yes, you are in an abusive relationship. If in immediate danger, call 911. For confidential help, call 1-800-273-8255.